A cynical optimist

One of the many things I like about Mike (my husband, for the uninitiated) is that he manages to be both cynical and optimistic at the same time. He tends to have a pretty objective view about the world around him. The greatest of evil, and the pettiest of corruption may surprise him – but he’s pretty aware and understanding of everything in between. He starts by thinking the best of people, but he understands when they show their weaknesses. This is not to say he’s not disappointed – sometimes he is – but that his expectations are measured. And yet, he believes in the power of people to change things. Perhaps not dramatically, but every revolution – and evolution – starts with one step. So he’s an activist – whether in the global escale on behalf of human rights everywhere, in the national arena, working to get Bush out, or acting locally to improve our schools and keep tabs on city council. Mostly, Mike cares and he thinks caring can make a difference. It’s nice to be married to someone you don’t just love, but like so much.